Considerations for Choosing the Right Trustee
Choosing the right successor trustee is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when you create your living trust. Your trustee will manage assets, pay expenses, communicate with beneficiaries, and ultimately distribute your estate according to your wishes. While many people default to naming a friend or family member, there are circumstances in which a professional fiduciary may be a better choice. Below, we explore common scenarios for each option and offer best‑practice guidelines to help you decide.
When a Friend or Family Member Makes Sense
1. Small or Straightforward Estates
If your trust holds relatively modest assets—perhaps a home, modest investment accounts, and personal property—and your family relationships are harmonious, a trusted loved one may be well equipped to serve. A friend or relative who knows your family dynamics can often communicate more personally with beneficiaries and may take on the role out of love and loyalty rather than for compensation.
2. Strong Financial Acumen and Availability
Choose a friend or family member who:
Demonstrates solid organizational skills and basic financial literacy.
Lives locally or is comfortable traveling to handle real‑estate and other in-person matters.
Has the time and emotional bandwidth to act impartially, even during family tensions.
3. Low Conflict Potential
When your beneficiaries are unlikely to dispute decisions—perhaps because your estate plan is straightforward or family members share your vision—an informal trustee can keep costs down and preserve a personal touch.
Pitfalls to Watch For
Emotional Burden: Managing an estate can be stressful and time consuming. Even well‑intentioned family members may grow overwhelmed.
Perceived Favoritism: Other beneficiaries may question whether the trustee is acting impartially.
Lack of Expertise: Mistakes in valuation, tax filings, or trust accounting can be costly and lead to creditor or beneficiary challenges.
When to Consider a Professional Fiduciary
1. Complex or High‑Value Estates
If your assets include businesses, multiple real‑estate holdings, international investments, or significant charitable components, a seasoned professional fiduciary brings experience in asset management, tax compliance, and legal requirements.
2. Blended Families or Potential Disputes
Family tensions—divorced children, second marriages, or beneficiaries with special‑needs trusts—can heighten the risk of conflict. A corporate or independent professional trustee operates under a fiduciary duty to act impartially and can insulate family members from difficult decisions.
3. Incapacity or Out‑of‑Area Concerns
When you don’t trust family members to stay objective under stress, or you and your family live far apart, a professional fiduciary ensures continuity. Many firms offer 24/7 availability and standardized processes for notices, accountings, and distributions.
4. Trustee Compensation and Oversight
Professional trustees charge competitive fees—often a percentage of assets under management plus transaction costs—but those fees can pale in comparison to legal fees and lost asset value from trustee errors or beneficiary litigation.
Best Practices for Naming Your Successor Trustee
Tiered Approach: Name a trusted family member as primary trustee, with a professional fiduciary as co‑trustee or successor upon a triggering event (e.g., incapacity, death).
Clear Trust Provisions: Outline compensation, expense reimbursement, and a dispute‑resolution mechanism (mediation or arbitration) to manage expectations.
Regular Reviews: Revisit your choice of trustee every few years—particularly after major life events such as divorce, relocation, or the birth of grandchildren.
Open Communication: Discuss your selection with potential trustees in advance. Ensure they understand the duties and are willing to serve.
By carefully weighing the complexity of your estate, family dynamics, and the skills required, you can select a successor trustee who will honor your wishes, uphold fiduciary standards, and provide peace of mind for your loved ones.