Considerations for Choosing the Right Trustee

Choosing the right successor trustee is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when you create your living trust. Your trustee will manage assets, pay expenses, communicate with beneficiaries, and ultimately distribute your estate according to your wishes. While many people default to naming a friend or family member, there are circumstances in which a professional fiduciary may be a better choice. Below, we explore common scenarios for each option and offer best‑practice guidelines to help you decide.

When a Friend or Family Member Makes Sense

1. Small or Straightforward Estates
If your trust holds relatively modest assets—perhaps a home, modest investment accounts, and personal property—and your family relationships are harmonious, a trusted loved one may be well equipped to serve. A friend or relative who knows your family dynamics can often communicate more personally with beneficiaries and may take on the role out of love and loyalty rather than for compensation.

2. Strong Financial Acumen and Availability
Choose a friend or family member who:

• Demonstrates solid organizational skills and basic financial literacy.

• Lives locally or is comfortable traveling to handle real‑estate and other in-person matters.

• Has the time and emotional bandwidth to act impartially, even during family tensions.

3. Low Conflict Potential
When your beneficiaries are unlikely to dispute decisions—perhaps because your estate plan is straightforward or family members share your vision—an informal trustee can keep costs down and preserve a personal touch.

Pitfalls to Watch For

• Emotional Burden: Managing an estate can be stressful and time consuming. Even well‑intentioned family members may grow overwhelmed.

• Perceived Favoritism: Other beneficiaries may question whether the trustee is acting impartially.

• Lack of Expertise: Mistakes in valuation, tax filings, or trust accounting can be costly and lead to creditor or beneficiary challenges.

When to Consider a Professional Fiduciary

1. Complex or High‑Value Estates
If your assets include businesses, multiple real‑estate holdings, international investments, or significant charitable components, a seasoned professional fiduciary brings experience in asset management, tax compliance, and legal requirements.

2. Blended Families or Potential Disputes
Family tensions—divorced children, second marriages, or beneficiaries with special‑needs trusts—can heighten the risk of conflict. A corporate or independent professional trustee operates under a fiduciary duty to act impartially and can insulate family members from difficult decisions.

3. Incapacity or Out‑of‑Area Concerns
When you don’t trust family members to stay objective under stress, or you and your family live far apart, a professional fiduciary ensures continuity. Many firms offer 24/7 availability and standardized processes for notices, accountings, and distributions.

4. Trustee Compensation and Oversight
Professional trustees charge competitive fees—often a percentage of assets under management plus transaction costs—but those fees can pale in comparison to legal fees and lost asset value from trustee errors or beneficiary litigation.

Best Practices for Naming Your Successor Trustee

1. Tiered Approach: Name a trusted family member as primary trustee, with a professional fiduciary as co‑trustee or successor upon a triggering event (e.g., incapacity, death).

2. Clear Trust Provisions: Outline compensation, expense reimbursement, and a dispute‑resolution mechanism (mediation or arbitration) to manage expectations.

3. Regular Reviews: Revisit your choice of trustee every few years—particularly after major life events such as divorce, relocation, or the birth of grandchildren.

4. Open Communication: Discuss your selection with potential trustees in advance. Ensure they understand the duties and are willing to serve.

By carefully weighing the complexity of your estate, family dynamics, and the skills required, you can select a successor trustee who will honor your wishes, uphold fiduciary standards, and provide peace of mind for your loved ones.

Don’t Wait—Why Prompt Estate or Trust Administration Matters

After a death, the clock starts ticking. Under Probate Code §16061.7, a successor trustee has 60 days to notify heirs and beneficiaries once a revocable trust becomes irrevocable. Dragging your feet invites problems:

• Statutory penalties & personal liability. Missed notices or late accountings can expose the trustee to surcharge or removal.

• Tax deadlines. Estate tax returns (Form 706) and fiduciary income tax returns (Form 1041) carry hard due dates—often nine months or less from death. Interest and penalties accrue quickly.

• Asset risk. Uninsured property, uncollected rents, or unmanaged investments can lose value fast. Early action secures, inventories, and, where appropriate, sells or re-titles holdings.

• Beneficiary confidence. Silence breeds suspicion. Timely communication maintains transparency and reduces litigation threats.

• Strategic elections. Portability of a deceased spouse’s estate-tax exemption and capital-gain step-ups are use-it-or-lose-it. Delay can cost the family six figures.

Bottom line: prompt administration protects both beneficiaries and the person in charge. If you’ve been named trustee or executor, Shafae Law can guide you from day one so you stay compliant and stress-free.

Managing Your Digital Assets: A Key Part of Estate Planning

When it comes to estate planning, most people focus on the big-ticket items like homes, retirement accounts, and family heirlooms. But in today’s digital age, an often-overlooked aspect of your estate is your digital footprint.

What Are Digital Assets?

Digital assets are more than just email accounts and social media profiles. They encompass everything from your financial accounts and online subscriptions to your digital photos, cryptocurrency, and even your personal websites or blogs.

Here’s a breakdown of common digital assets:

• Social Media: Facebook, Instagram, X (Twitter), LinkedIn, and TikTok accounts.

• Financial Accounts: Online banking, investment platforms, cryptocurrency wallets, and Venmo/PayPal accounts.

• Subscriptions and Services: Streaming services (like Netflix and Spotify), cloud storage (such as Google Drive or Dropbox), and online shopping accounts (Amazon).

• Digital Content: Digital photos, music, videos, and e-books.

• Professional Accounts: Websites, blogs, or YouTube channels that may generate income or hold significant intellectual property.

Why You Should Include Digital Assets in Your Estate Plan

Without the proper estate planning, access to digital assets can become a legal and practical headache for your family after you pass away. Many tech companies, to comply with Federal privacy laws, have strict privacy policies, which could prevent your loved ones from accessing your accounts absent a court order. For example, your family may not be able to retrieve valuable data stored in a cloud account, or close out financial accounts that aren’t linked to physical documentation.

In the Bay Area, where tech plays an essential role in both professional and personal lives, this can be especially important for young adults working in industries that rely on digital platforms.

Steps to Manage Your Digital Assets

Here are some essential steps to incorporate digital assets into your estate plan:

1. Create a Digital Inventory: Start by making a list of all your digital accounts, from social media profiles to financial and business accounts. Be sure to include login credentials, passwords, and security question answers. This list should be stored in a secure location that your trusted decision maker can access, like a password manager or secure physical document.

2. Set Your Preferences: For social media accounts, check if the platforms offer legacy options. For example, both Facebook and Apple allow you to assign a legacy contact to manage your account after your death. Be clear about whether you’d like accounts memorialized or deleted.

3. Include Digital Assets in Your Will and Trust: Make sure your estate plan outlines specific instructions for digital assets. You can specify how your digital financial assets should be distributed and who should have access to your personal accounts.

   In California, you can appoint someone to handle your digital assets as part of your estate plan. This person will ensure your wishes are followed regarding the management or deletion of your accounts. They should be tech-savvy and familiar with handling digital platforms.

   Even without appointing someone specifically for this, be sure your estate planning documents contain appropriate provisions for any of your trustees to have the adequate legal authority to handle digital assets. For example, if your trust was established in the 1990s, it’s possible those provisions were not a consideration.

4. Keep Your Plan Updated: As technology evolves, so does your digital footprint. Update your digital inventory and estate plan regularly to reflect any new accounts or assets.

In a tech-centric region like the San Francisco Bay Area, neglecting your digital assets in your estate plan could leave your family with unnecessary complications. By taking the time to organize and plan for the distribution and management of your digital assets, you’re ensuring that your legacy, both physical and digital, is protected.

If you’re ready to secure your digital estate, contact our firm to discuss how we can help integrate your digital assets into your comprehensive estate plan.

Using A Professional Fiduciary

Estate planning is about choosing the right people to fill certain roles in your estate plan. It’s selecting decision makers and defining who they care for when you are unable to. For some, the estate plan and beneficiaries may be clear, but maybe it’s slim pickens trying to select someone to carry out the plan–the decision makers. Well, like anything else in life, you can usually find a professional to do the job. Enter: professional fiduciaries.

A fiduciary is a person who acts on behalf of another, like managing money or property. A fiduciary assumes a duty to act in good faith with care, candor, and loyalty in fulfilling their obligations. The trustee of a trust is an example of a fiduciary. The trustee is administering the terms of the trust, on behalf of the person who created the trust, for the benefit of the beneficiaries.

There are institutional fiduciaries, like a bank. And there are individual fiduciaries, who are bonded professionals in private practice. For flexibility and a personal touch, some may hire a private professional fiduciary. For long standing stability and managing large portfolios of assets, some may hire an institutional fiduciary. It depends on the circumstances and your priorities. Either way, you can meet and speak with a professional of your choice, and then nominate them in your estate planning documents.

Here are some circumstances when professional fiduciaries may be helpful.

Transplant

If you relocate to another part of the country, or to another country altogether, it may take some time to build a network of trusted friends and contacts. A professional fiduciary can help fill the role of financial decision maker when a personal contact or family member is not a practical possibility. If you end up finding someone you are more comfortable with, you can always amend your documents to update your list of decision makers. You do not need to delay creating an estate plan simply because you do not know enough people in town.

Specific Needs

If your loved ones require special attention–whether that be due to a medical condition, an addiction issue, issues related to means tested government benefits, or something entirely different–a professional fiduciary can assist navigate those delicate waters so that you do not have to place an ill equipped family member into the situation. A professional fiduciary will not be emotionally attached to your situation. They will have no problems setting boundaries with the beneficiary, or sticking to firm guidelines. It’s their job and they take it seriously. They will also ideally have familiarity and experience dealing with discrete issues with trust beneficiaries.

Multi generational

If an estate plan calls for long term care of beneficiaries–for example, a “dynasty” trust, or a trust set up for a very young beneficiary that will persist into that person’s adult life–then choosing a decision maker that can carry on their duties for decades may make a lot of sense. Institutional fiduciaries typically have the ability to outlive an individual serving that role, and can provide that continuity and consistency that may be required under the circumstances. Similarly, nominating a private professional fiduciary firm, that employs several fiduciaries, may allow for that same type of continuity over the course of years.

Your estate plan should not be dependent upon your personal network of contacts to provide you with an adequate decision maker. A professional fiduciary can fill a gap until a personal decision maker is available to you, and it can also provide you with options that a family member or close friend cannot provide.

What is... a Trustee?

This is part of an on-going series of blog posts titled the "What Is..." series, where we attempt to explain, in simple terms, common estate planning terms and concepts. To read other posts in this series, click here.

A trustee is a person (or sometimes an institution, like a bank) who has the power to act on behalf of a trust. If you establish a living trust (as a trustor), then most of the time you will be the initial trustee. You act on behalf of the trust. 

As the trustor (also known as the person who established the trust), you also name successor trustees -- people who will act on behalf of the trust after you, either because you no longer want to, or you are not able to do so, or because you have passed away. 

As the trustee of your own living trust, nothing changes on a day-to-day basis. You even file taxes the same way. The living trust is more like a legal alias for you.

But what do your successor trustees do for your trust? Or, what do YOU do if you’re named as a successor trustee for someone else? 

In sum: the trustee’s job is to carry out the directions set forth in the trust document. 

There are some initial steps that a successor trustee must take after the death of the trustor. Please note that this is not an exhaustive list -- and this is exactly what we help with as attorneys. This is for informational purposes, to give you some idea of the responsibilities involved. 

First, the trustee must accept the position so that they can act on behalf of the trust. Then:

1. In general, the trustee must notify the beneficiaries and heirs that they are beneficiaries of the trust.

2. Certain government offices must be notified as well, depending on the trustor’s assets and benefits. For example, if the trustor owned real estate, then the assessor’s office must be notified. If the trustor was receiving social security benefits or Medi-Cal benefits, those agencies would need to be notified.

3. The trustee must then inventory and determine the value of assets as of the date of the trustor’s death (e.g. appraisals of property, etc.). This is required to determine the value of the assets for tax purposes, and to provide an accounting of the trust property to the beneficiaries.

4. In addition to handling an estate tax return, the trustee may be required to file the trustor’s final income tax return for the year that they died. The trustee may also have to file an income tax return if the trust estate earns money before it is all distributed to the beneficiaries. 

The trustee must then follow the instructions in the trust, within the boundaries of the law. This may include paying funeral expenses, outstanding credit card debts, etc. Some trusts have certain time periods during which the beneficiaries should receive a distribution, or they may have conditions that must be met before a beneficiary receives a distribution. Some trusts require waiting a certain period of time before the beneficiary receives a distribution, or the trust may contain outright restrictions on distribution. The trustee is tasked with interpreting and executing all of these instructions.

The trustee has a fiduciary duty to the trust. This means that just because they have the right to do something doesn’t mean that they should do it. For example, they may have the ability to sell trust assets like a home, but if they sell it for below the market value, or in a down market, they could have breached their fiduciary duty.

It’s important to know what the trust says to be able to execute its provisions and comply with the legal requirements. 

If you are a successor trustee for a loved one, please contact us for a free initial consultation. If you have a trust, and would like to ensure that it says what you want it to say for your trustee, please also contact us for an initial consultation.

Trustees and Fees

If I ask someone to be a trustee for me, I want to make sure that they get paid. Do I need to give them a specific amount in the trust? 

Most trusts (like most of the ones we draft) include a provision that permits the trustee to receive “reasonable” compensation. In most cases, this is determined based on the amount of time and complexity of an estate. And, in most cases, there is no dispute about the trustee receiving reasonable compensation. 

However, if you anticipate that someone might challenge the compensation, then you absolutely can specify how a trustee will be compensated. For example, you might select a percentage of your assets as payment or you might select an hourly rate that increases with inflation. 

(Note: If you have a professional fiduciary serve as a successor trustee, then they will provide their own rate of pay.)

How does someone determine what is a reasonable fee?  

The trustee must keep track of all the time that he or she spends in the role of trustee. The trustee should keep a log of the date, amount of time*, and each task that was performed. More complicated tasks are entitled to increased compensation. Keeping clear records is important. 

At the end of the year, the trustee can obtain the fee. By keeping clear records, the beneficiaries understand why the trustee is requesting the amounts and what they did during that time. Additionally, if administering the trust takes multiple years, the beneficiaries are less likely to raise issues or questions if the fees are spread over several years. 

*How does a trustee track time? 

We recommend tracking time by 15 minute increments or less. In other words, if something takes you 10 minutes, then it’s okay to put in .25 as your time; it is not okay to round up to an hour. 

Is the trustee’s fee considered a gift? 

No. The trustee’s fee is taxable income. It is earned. However, if the trustee spends money that is reimbursed (e.g. mileage for trips on behalf of the trust or tolls) than this is not income and therefore not subject to income tax. 

How does the trustee pay for things? 

The trust pays for trust expenses. Depending on the terms of the trust and the point at which a trustee begins managing the trust, the trustee should create a trust administration bank account, opened using a taxpayer ID that is specifically for the trust. 

What if my trustee doesn’t want to accept a fee? 

Even if the trustee chooses to waive a fee, he or she is still entitled to receive one and should take the approach we recommend above. A trustee may begin by saying that they don’t want a fee, but if the time and complexity becomes too much, they may decide otherwise. Having clear records is the key. 

Why wouldn’t a trustee accept a fee payment? 

Trustee fees are income, and therefore subject to income tax. If the trustee is also a beneficiary of the trust, they may decide to waive the fee as they would receive funds as a trust distribution anyway. 

If I become a trustee, what’s the first thing I should do? 

We strongly recommend speaking to an attorney (like us) as early as possible. We know that grieving can take a toll, but we also are here to help guide you through the trust administration process.